Life with Eliott and Carter: A Year in Status Updates

The title pretty much says it all, and as I haven’t finished baby books for either of my children I’ll consider this the next best thing.  I promise, quotes have been recorded as delivered, likely within minutes of actual origination.

“Eliott, did you have any friends in your class this morning?”
“Yeah! There was the boogery one and the not-boogery one.”
Oh how I wish I could use such description in my personal life without offending anyone.
February 3

Eliott is learning to rhyme: “Napkin. Mapkin. Slap him.”
February 28

“Hey mom, you know what I’m feeding Lamby Lamb? Apple juice, green grass, and beer.”
Lucky Lamby Lamb.
March 3

M (losing patience): Eliott, are you brushing your teeth?!
E: No. I’m figuring.
M: Figuring WHAT?!
E: I’m trying to figure out how Jesus had a son named God.
March 4

“We got to have the ABC’s cereal, with the little marshmallows. But no milk.”
I can’t decide if it’s cute that my child has no idea what Lucky Charms are, or just sad.
March 16

Eliott’s version of Twisted Sister (a non-conformist in the making): “YES. We’re gonna take it! YES, we’re gonna take it! Anymore…”
March 21

Every time we get in the car my 4-year old requests Amy Macdonald on the radio, to which her sister always replies (singing), “E-I-E-I-O.”
March 22

M: Eliott, if we make chocolate pudding tonight, there won’t be any more milk for breakfast tomorrow.
E: Mommy, I would like to have water with my breakfast.  Does that sound fine?  That sounds fine with me.
March 26

Carter’s official first sentence: “I want this.” Let it be said, she knew before she was 2.
March 29

Elmo is making cupcakes on Dr. Oz.  Carter’s head is exploding.
March 30

Despite my pseudo death-lessons through balloons and refrigerator pictures, I’m just not ready to explain Bambi’s mom to Eliott.
April 5

Introspective Eliott: “If Carter dies, we might have to get a dog or a kitty cat.”
April 13

E: Anji’s skinny, Dragon’s skinny, Uncle Daniel’s skinny…
M: Am I skinny?
E: No. You are not skinny. Daddy’s skinny.
M: What does skinny mean, Eliott?
E: It means you have hair on your back.
April 17

“Hey Mom, you are fat as Jesus.” -Eliott Wait for president-
April 22

“I did not steal Carter’s money. I’m sharing all the money.” Eliott understands Socialism.
April 24

My neighbors are outside putting together a new basketball hoop as a family. Eliott just came in the front door and announced (unprompted), “Mom, that’s the Evil Stepmother out there.”
April 30

E: In one month it will be summer?
M: Yes.
E: That means, no more Clemmons house?
M: No. That means no more pre-school.
E: No more PRE-SCHOOL!? Oh no! I’m gonna die!
That makes two of us.
May 5

Eliott: But I don’t like being good, Mommy. I like being naughty.
Me: Why do you like being naughty?
Eliott (eyebrows shooting up and a crazy smile crossing her face): Because it’s fun! Being good is not fun. And we have no fun toys.
June 13

E: Well, then I smelled this one bathroom and it wasn’t even stinky. It smelled like princess.
M: What does princess smell like?
E: It smells like, good. It smells like steak.
June 23

Coming home from a week at Grandma’s house = “All my toys! I missed these so much!” (Not going anywhere in a hurry today. More coffee? Sure, would love some…)
June 24

Sisterly love or Jr. High dance pose? You decide. June 26


When I walked into her room this morning, Carter’s exclamation could be interpreted in one of two ways: “I toot!” or “I two!” Given that today is July 7th, I’m going with the latter. Happy Birthday Big Girl.

July 7

Made it to Knoxville despite the 4 going on 74 year old in the seat behind me announcing through every downpour, “We never should have left our house tonight.”
July 9

Watching Robinhood  or “Robin Neighborhood,” according to Eliott, who can’t understand how Prince John is a “boy queen.”
July 13

Discipline Tactic #14: “Child. DO you want a beating?!”
Carter Translation: “Bandaid? I need Bandaid.”
Fair enough.
July 26

This is what I call a successful morning. August 2

Child pooped on my foot this morning. That was a first.
August 17

Had to change my directions to the ever specific: Stop. Touching. People. Period.
August 19

Eliott at CVS: “Hey mommy, are these ear drops?” (Holding up a value pack of enema kits.) “It says you can either do them with your bottom up, or your bottom down.”
August 31

As Eliott brags to the older neighborhood kids about her new ability to ride a two-wheeler, she seems blissfully unaware that her shoes are on the wrong feet.
September 6

Eliott’s teacher when I picked her up at preschool this morning: “So, did Eliott dress herself today?”
Wondering what’s wrong with the Hawaiian dress and jean jacket I mumble a tentative yes, question-mark.
Teacher: “It seems she forgot to wear her panties to school.”
September 12

Things you might find yourself doing as a mother: reaching a gloved hand into the toilet because your 4 year old has informed you she thinks a toy just came out of her bottom.
September 13

Eliott’s list of important people. September 29

You know you’re a good parent when your children fight over who gets to pray at dinner.
October 1

“I’m a grown up. I’m practicing being a grown up,” Eliott said as she worked with her plastic fork and knife. Then, with that ever smug glaze in her eyes (knowing she was doing something so grown up) she started belting out a tune from Yo Gabba Gabba.
October 2

Dinner table wedding discussion: “I can’t believe at Erica’s party that Dragon took Erica’s underwear off and just threw it. To all the people. Yeah.  I can’t believe that he did that.” – Eliott Wait
October 5

When she’s wearing jeans, Carter frequently experiences moments of frustration confusing her fly for a 3rd pocket.
October 6

How’s this for honesty?
“I bite Diego nipple.” -Carter Wait, after church.

October 11

Lady Gaga’s “Poker Face” comes on the radio and Carter starts cracking up. Then, from the backseat she starts singing, “Ba Ba- Booger Face.”
October 28

You have not known frustration, until you have attempted to put mittens on a 2 year old and gloves on a 4 year old, and actually get all the fingers in their correct places.
November 17

At the drive-thru to get my buy one get one Starbucks special and Carter yells from the backseat to the window (with authority): “I want chicken-uggets and chock-it milk!” She then repeated chocolate milk at least four times, emphasis on “chock-it” each time.
November 18

My genius 2 year old: Last night at dinner, Carter looked at Grandma Wait and said, “Grandma. You not boss!” She then smacked Grandma’s hand like a mommy disciplining a child. It took her point two seconds to realize her mistake and immediately recovered by smiling and announcing, “High five?”
November 23

Eliott: Mommy, I need to send Peyton a message tomorrow.
Me: Oh. You want to write him a letter?
Eliott: Yes, and do you know what the letter will be?
Me: What?
Eliott: E. But I need to send Peyton a message tomorrow too.
November 26

Before soccer practice:
Daddy: Okay, when you take their ball away, then what do you do?
Eliott: Say sorry.
It seems my daughter has inherited her father’s body and her mother’s brain.
December 12

Carter finishes singing in her pre-school Christmas program, comes back to sit with me and announces to a silent congregation from the second row: “Mommy.  Let me see your nipples.”
December 14

Yes that is play dough, hot chocolate, and dress up. Proof that fun does happen on my watch, despite my reputation for the contrary. December 16

On Christmas: The most fought over toy of the year has to be the Dirt Devil Jr I found on Craigslist last summer for about $5. Eliott was found down on her hands and knees just before church yesterday, “cleaning” under the stove with the hose attachment. Santa-mom wins again.
December 26

Dad: Eliott, you are getting so tall.  You have to stop growing.
Eliott: No!  I need to keep growing.  That’s how life works.
Dad: But I like you small.  Will you stay small for me?
Eliott: Well, no, I want to be tall.  I want to be able to reach things without using stools all the time.
January 1

Read Life with Eliott, 2010 here.

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4 comments on “Life with Eliott and Carter: A Year in Status Updates
  1. Joyce says:

    All I can say is thank you for writing this all down and sharing it with us. Love those two beautiful, intelligent, beauties. Grandma hugs for everyone!!

  2. Heather Cummings says:

    Holy crap I laughed so hard. I am going to do the same things from my kids, but I doubt it will be as funny. Miss you.

  3. Mom says:

    I hope for MY sake you are transferring these gems to a permanent written book. If you don’t seize the opportunity to get it published, I shall…

  4. Mom says:

    And WHAT is that crazy purple grinning triangle icon beside my name? Huh?

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